你小朋友係聰明D既……都係你果個乖D易教D啦……你就好la……
不少父母皆有育兒煩惱，每當與友人分享「教仔/女難題」時，都不自覺羨慕人家，而感慨自己的孩子天生就是難搞分子，任父母如何努力，結果都是一樣～麻麻。
所以，小朋友的問題，責任不在父母，只能歸咎於孩子天生/天資問。二來就是相比下，人家的孩子永遠是勝一籌，完。這樣一來，孩子就變得責任重大了，是生死存亡的始作俑者！
是嗎？一定是天生/天資就是如此嗎？
親子溝通、親子互動、親子時間、親子活動、親子關係……哪方面父母只要做足多小小功夫，就會完全扭轉大局？
“I think today the world is upside down,
and is suffering so much because there is
so very little love in the home, and in family life.
We have no time for our children,
We have no time for each other,
There is no time to enjoy each other.”
The poverty of being unwanted, unloved and uncared for is the greatest poverty……”
—- Mother Teresa
文：AZ媽 圖：Aziza Lo
